Half Moon Cay Bahamas _Sea Horses

Horse and rider approaching the turquoise water at Half Moon Cay

The Elixir · Half Moon Cay · Final Call

My Mane Concern

After six consecutive cruises aboard Noordam, one final stop before Fort Lauderdale: white sand, vivid blue water, wonderful horses—and a brain permanently rewired by ships.

The Cavalry Is Coming

Last Stop Before Land

I sign off the Noordam tomorrow after six consecutive cruises. This is the last stop before Fort Lauderdale—Half Moon Cay. White powder-sand beaches, vivid blue water and these wonderful horses.

I used to think working on cruise ships was bad, but I stopped thinking. I guess I have ship for brains.

The need to break free and sail away is ancient, enduring and incessant. Voyages trigger a concept called psychological distance. Something about leaving your place creates a shock and awe—a pathway into a new perspective that floods the brain with ideas.

For me, this shift begins as soon as I am on a cruise ship. Ships are weirdly the most lucid part of my life. Every cruise I take somehow changes my life in some way.

Horse and rider at Half Moon Cay
The cavalry is coming.
Horseback riding beside vivid Caribbean water
One last ride before returning to land.

Psychological Distance

The Cruise Lasts Longer Than the Cruise

The actual cruise might be four days or a week. The anticipation of a Norwegian Fjords cruise can last for months, and the memory may last for years—or forever. There is the joy of anticipating it, the joy of doing it and the joy of remembering it.

Travel is an art and a science. It alters perception and personality and may even rewire the brain. That is what I mean by ship for brains. Novelty and one-of-a-kind experiences drive optimism, energy, curiosity and creativity.

My brain made me travel.
Half Moon Cay horseback excursion
Movement changes the view before it changes the destination.

Freedom Without Restraint

White Sand, Turquoise Water, Check Please

Caribbean white-sand and coral beaches. Clear, warm turquoise water away from the masses of tourists. Palm trees swaying in a gentle breeze. Okay, I am sold.

Check please.

Ed beside a horse at Half Moon Cay
Mr Ed and Ed—the symbols of travel, movement and desire.

Golden Thread · Single Source of Truth

The Asymmetric Equation

Every year is evidence. Every retrospective extracts the law beneath the itinerary. The destinations change; the equation keeps the archive coherent.

Asymmetric ReturnClarity + Risk + Time = Asymmetric Return
The Cost of StasisComfort Protected Too Long = Regret Compounded
MeaningChosen Suffering + Sustained Attention = Meaning
SignalSilence + Distance = Signal
ElixirExperience + Form = Elixir

A Decade Plus Calendar of Hindsight

Six Bearings From the Wake

The Half Moon Cay departure becomes more legible beside the years that followed: voyage, language, passage, mirror, wake and endurance.

2011 · The Long Way Around

365 Days × 8, 7 Seas, 1 Story

Los Angeles to London, 23 ports and a world cruise preserved one shore day at a time.

Distance + Duration + Attention = A World SeenOpen 2011

2012 · Write? Right!

Happy Last Year

The moving map became a written world: 364 days travelling, more than 130 posts and six continents.

Experience + Language = A Journey Made VisibleOpen 2012

2013 · Between Two Oceans

The Map Became the Story

Panama, Alaska, the Caribbean, Arabia and an accidental sailor learning to live forward.

Passage + Perspective = StoryOpen 2013

2014 · Reeling in the Year

The Map Became a Mirror

Desert light, cathedral silence, Caribbean water, North Sea weather and a Pacific return.

Distance + Reflection = MirrorOpen 2014

2015 · The Wake

The World Became a Wake

Ninety-plus days at sea, 97 dispatches and one year that refused to stay still.

Motion + Memory = WakeOpen 2015

2020 · Before Covid

The Stiff Upper Lip

Pandemic time reframed London, Ireland, uncertainty and the desire to gather again.

Uncertainty + Endurance = PerspectiveOpen 2020

Featured Podcast · Fifteen Years of Backward Bearings

Finding Meaning Through Backward Bearings

Fifteen annual retrospectives become one navigational chart. The destinations matter, but the deeper story is how distance, work, weather, risk, companionship and reinvention reveal their meaning only when viewed from the wake.

Continue the Voyage

Three Companion Routes

The Other Bahamian Stopover

Castaway Cay

Disney Magic and the year the world stopped sailing.

Read Castaway Cay

The Operating Lesson

LeaderSHIP

The bridge, the crew and the practice of leadership at sea.

Read LeaderSHIP

The Grand Voyage

The First Segment

A 28-day opening leg that belongs to the wider map of sea years.

Read the Grand Voyage

The Elixir

The View From the Wake

Anticipation + Experience + Memory = A Voyage That Outlives Its Itinerary

The horse ride ends. The ship signs off. The island falls behind. But distance has already done its work: it has changed the traveller who returns.

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